Margaret was still a small, delicate child when the family
arrived in St. George. It is generally understood that the
St. George Mission was one of the hardest in the Church,
and because her father was in poor circumstances, it was
extra hard for his family. They did not have enough food to
satisfy their hunger, even the coarser kind, for part of the
first years. Margaret told of the first time she remembered
tasting a cookie. It was given her by a neighbor--she thought
she had never eaten anything so good. She says that during her
early years she was often hungry and cold, and many times her
stomach turned at the things offered her to eat: bread made of
cane seed, or corn bread.
Her schooling amounted to almost nothing, having very poor
teachers, and no text books. Each child brought the book or
books obtainable, and her only book was a small speller.
However, she learned to read well, do a little figuring,
and write a fairly good hand. She did not enjoy to write,
because spelling was hard for her. So that by the time she
was a young woman, she had known little else than poverty.
She had learned to spin yarn and knit stockings and do plain
sewing besides the necessary house work and cooking.
Landing in Snowflake a total stranger except for her brother
and wife, with a year old baby, their partly built home some
blocks from neighbors, her husband away at work, no fences or
trees, only the natural wild condition of the country, she
must have suffered greatly those first months, even years.
But she stood it bravely. In early years she grieved for her
kindred. In later years when she could have gone and lived
among them she said, No, my home is here, and they have
theirs. I don't want to go to them now.
Charles was a good provider, though he was away from home a
great deal. She always had what she wished and needed to get
along with. Of course, she had to put up with pioneer
conditions, poor houses, sometimes poor food, because there
was nothing better to be had, no doctor or help in times of
sickness. But if she had serious sickness, which happened many
times in bearing eight children and raising seven, she had
great faith, and would pray to her God, and call the Elders,
and her prayers were answered many times.
All during her married life until her family was raised, they
had a great deal of company. Many times at Quarterly
Conferences, they had a houseful. In those days, people from
other settlements would bring a team and wagon, and often a
bed, and come on Friday and stay until Monday. Sometimes the
Jarvis's had beds on all the floors, in the yard and in the
wagons, and two, three or four tables full for each meal.
Charley would provide the food, and he loved to entertain, and
Margaret was a good cook and enjoyed to show off her art.
Plum puddings, mince pies, delicious cakes, toasts, meat pies, etc.
Margaret Jarvis held a number of offices in the Church,
Counselor in the Stake Primary, Ward Relief Society President,
Relief Society Teacher, Sunday School Teacher for many years,
and always a member of the Ward Choir. She loved to sing--knew
hundreds of songs and sang as she worked. She also loved to
read, especially stories and poetry, which she memorized, also
church literature, lessons, etc.
She also enjoyed to have a garden, trees and vines, and she
planted and cared for it herself, and gathered the fruit.
This was hard work for a woman, but Charley always worked
in an office after they lived in St. Johns, and his legs
bothered so he could not get around well for such work.
About the year 1897, she began having spells of terrible
cramps. In the spells which sometimes lasted a week or more,
she was unable to eat, and suffered intensely. At first no one
seemed to know the cause, but later it proved to be gall
stones. She finally had to submit to a serious operation to
have them removed, after suffering nearly 25 years. However,
she completely recovered from the operation, and enjoyed better
health thereafter the remainder of her life.
In 1910, she was chosen by the Relief Society of the St.
Johns Ward to go to Salt Lake City and take the course in
General Nursing and Obstetrics, being offered by the Church
Relief Society for the benefit of the members everywhere,
so that in each settlement someone with training and
understanding would be available to help people in time of
sickness. The Relief Society offered to pay part of the cost
of tuition. She went, taking Lois, who was about sixteen years
old, with her, and leaving her husband and son, Albert, to
manage at home.
This seemed the opportunity she had craved, for she took right
up with the work and seemed to thoroughly enjoy it. She learned
the medical terms, and made such rapid progress, that it
seemed a marvel that a woman of her age and previous lack of
education and technical training could obtain such wonderful
insight and understanding of modern practice in the time
allotted for the course. When it was through, she passed the
Medical Board Examination of the State of Utah with high
points, and returned home ready at call to help in sickness
whenever she was needed. She presented her Certificate to the
Medical Board of Arizona, and was readily accorded a
certificate to practice Nursing and Obstetrics in Arizona
also. Her calls were many. She lived fifteen years after her
husband's death, lived alone in a home she built, and went
whenever or wherever called, night or day. Her grand-daughter,
Leola Jarvis was the second baby she cared for, and her Great
Grand-daughter, LaVell Jarvis was the 272nd one and she never
lost a case.
She attributed this to the blessings of the Lord. She had some
unusual and abnormal cases when she was alone and could get no
help, but through her faith and the blessings of the Lord, as
she always said, they got along without a loss. She was a
veritable Angel of Mercy in many homes. Especially was she
depended on and appreciated among the Mexican mothers of the
town, to whom her skill and jovial personality were such a
comfort. Many of them depended upon her implicitly.
Dr. Margaret Jarvis, as she was lovingly called by those who
knew her best, was five feet three inches in height, normal
weight 165 pounds and over, (quite plump), blue eyes, clear
complexion, pleasant face, and beautiful, soft, dark brown,
wavy hair, which later turned to silvery white. She kept her
plump form and erect carriage to the last. She loved to
walk--would take long strolls for the pure joy of walking in
the fresh air and sunshine, observing the flowers, birds,
rocks, etc.
Two weeks before her death she waited on her grandson's wife
with her third child, and when she was through with the case,
told some friends that she hadn't a case promised at that time.
She said, Since I have been practicing I have always had
several cases ahead, but just now I haven't any.
In two or
three days she was stricken, and it was soon evident that her
sickness was serious. She lived only twelve days. The morning
before she died, she sang the first verse of a favorite hymn,
The morning breaks, the shadows flee.
The next morning,
January 12th, 1934, she passed away about sunrise.
The preceeding was taken from the Margaret Jarvis entry in
Amy Thiriot's genealogy blog:
Amy Thiriot's Charles Margaret Jarvis blog
for which we are most grateful. Amy Thiriot, in turn, indicates
that her material is taken from Margaret Jarvis Overson's
George Jarvis and Joseph George DeFriez Genealogy,
Mesa, Arizona: Privately printed, 1957.
Charles Godfrey DeFriez Jarvis
Charles Godfrey DeFriez Jarvis was born in London, Middlesex,
England, October 3rd, 1855. He was the seventh child and sixth
son of Dr. Joseph George and Mary Ann Godfrey DeFriez. He
remembers going with his father when he was a small boy, on
his round of calls to visit his patients in his duties as
parish doctor; also watching his father make pills and mix
medicines. He also enjoyed immensely the trips with his father
to resorts, rowing, fishing, &c., as also the happy times at
home when they had parties, plays and theaters in their big kitchen.
He never forgot these experiences, and often told his children
of these jolly times of his childhood. In the pioneer days in
the Arizona towns he often took parts in plays, and enjoyed it
immensely, and the impersonation of various characters showed
his taste and unusual talent in that line. He continued taking
parts until his lameness prevented him from getting around.
When Charles was ten years old he went to live with his older
brother Joe, who had lately married, and helped him as butcher
boy. He stayed two years, and gained great insight into
butchering, and the cutting and handling of meat. The next
three years he attended a very good school. Charles was an
industrious student. He acquired a good understanding of
business arithmetic, English, spelling, bookkeeping, became
a beautiful writer, and was very good at music--could play two
or more instruments, and sing well.
At age fifteen he went to sea. What British lad is satisfied
to remain a land-lubber? His first voyage was on a merchant
vessel loaded with general merchandise for Bombay, India.
Before returning, he had visited several different countries,
including Calcutta, and France, and had been gone several
months. He then went home on a visit.
He next became an ordinary seaman. The voyages were perilous.
Sickness, suffering and trouble of many kinds were experienced.
At one time a storm arose and the Captain ordered the cargo
which was on deck, consisting mostly of rapeseed [canola], put
below to lessen the danger. It was my job,
said father, to
remove the bags as they were being dropped below by the
sailors, but each was to call, ‘Look out below,' before he
dropped his bag. One big Irish sailor dropped his bag and then
called ‘Look out below,' too late for me to get out of the way,
and I was crushed beneath the heavy bag of seed. The other
sailors had the big Irishman ready to string up for being so
careless and perhaps killing me, when I became conscious and
interceded in his behalf.
At another time, smallpox broke out on the ship, and most of
the men were very ill; seventeen died and were buried at sea,
and father, who had a lighter case than many, had to wait on
the sick until the epidemic had subsided. By this time the crew
were short of necessary rations, and other supplies, and drew
near Australia, but were not allowed to go near land, but had
to stay at anchor several miles from the mainland near a small
island, and supplies were brought in boats from shore and left
on the island, and after they had gone, men from the vessel
had to go in boats to the island and get the merchandise. The
quarantine lasted forty days, and then a thorough renovating
and repainting had to be done before the ship was allowed to
enter port.
Charles was in Australia with his brother Ebenezer and their
friend John Miles, and with them heard of Mormonism
so
called, and while the others accepted it there, he was not
converted. He continued with them on the voyage, was honorably
discharged from the ship with them at Puget Sound, Washington,
in the fall of 1873.
From there they traveled south through Washington, Oregon,
California, and on to Utah. Here the boys separated, Eb and
John going to St. George, while Charley found his way to
Filmore, Utah.
At Filmore he was given work by the bishop, and lived at his
home. One day while riding, the horse fell, and his knee was
caught under the horn of the saddle as the horse rolled over.
Charles thought that bruise or injury was the starting of the
bone trouble that caused him to become badly crippled in later life.
April 18th, 1874, while at Filmore, he was baptized a member
of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. That winter
he was called to go to St. George to work on the Temple, where
he remained until it was completed in January 1877.
While in St. George he lived at the home of an English sailor
named George Jarvis. Charles became very fond of these people.
They were very kind to him, as also other young men who were
away from home. Theirs was a gathering place for entertainment.
The father loved to relate stories of the sea and the many
lands he had visited in his eighteen years as a sailor; the
mother and daughters knew all the old English songs, and loved
to sing and talk about Old England and pioneer experiences;
Charles played well on the flute, and enjoyed to take part in
the singing, being a very good bass. In summer, they congregated
in the yard; in winter, in front of the big fireplace.
But Charles was especially fond of the daughter, Margaret. As
the temple neared completion, the people were advised to plan
for doing their work therein. And although perhaps not fully
understood, to be sealed to their parents, and on back, and so
be connected with their dead ancestors. This counsel worried
those whose parents were not in the church, and the idea was
advanced that they might be adopted to parents whom they
chose. Perhaps this was discussed in the Jarvis home, and
no doubt Margaret Jarvis thought it a good idea, and so
expressed herself. Anyway, Charles asked father Jarvis's
permission to be sealed or adopted into his family, since
his own father had not come to Utah. The Jarvis's said it
would be all right with them, and accordingly it was done
in the temple in February 1878. Afterward, in the District
Court of Apache County, in the summer of 1882, his name was
legally changed to Charles Jarvis, which name he carried all
through his life in all business, legal and church capacities,
and was the name he passed down to his children. However, in
some of his family records and some church records, especially
genealogical records, he recorded his full name, Charles
Godfrey DeFriez with Jarvis added.
In 1903, when the Salt Lake Temple was dedicated, Wilford
Woodruff, then President of the Church said, I want you
from this time forward to be sealed to your own parents,
and so on back as far as can go. Not to…anyone else.
After
that, Charles expressed a doubt to some of his children,
that he had done the right thing in changing his name--but
it was an easy name to speak and write, and he hated to go
into court again and make another change. And thus it is.
This explanation seemed necessary here, so there need be no
misunderstanding of reasons and motives.
Charles Godfrey DeFriez Jarvis and Margaret Jarvis were
married in the St. George Temple, March 1st, 1878. November
22nd, 1878, their first child, Margaret was born, at the
home of her grandparents Jarvis, in St. George, Utah.
About this time Charles, Samuel and Heber Jarvis, all
received calls to go and help in the settlement of Arizona.
Because Heber was young and unmarried, he was temporarily
excused.
Charles and Sam and his wife left March 10th, 1879 for
Arizona, taking a few head of stock and horses and one
wagon, and arrived in Snowflake, Arizona, April 9th, one
month later.
They made arrangements for some land and a city lot each.
They planted a crop and built a log house (or partly built
one) for each family that summer, and on September 1st,
Charles started to Utah for his wife and baby. He made the
trip and returned to Snowflake on November 22nd, 1879, the
day the baby was one year old.
They had brought their membership certificates and were
accepted as members of the Snowflake Ward, Eastern Arizona
Stake, and Charles was chosen very soon to lead the choir.
He was a good musician, for those days because of his
training in England, at school and at home. He played the
cornet, flute, piccolo and later, the violin. He was
especially good on time, had a good voice for singing, and
a really technical ear for music. These qualifications made
him at once popular and prominent in the community. Margaret
also had a good soprano voice, but lacked the knowledge of
music. They had many enjoyable times in a social way that
year, although on account of shortage of food and the difficulty
of getting supplies because of the great distance they had to
be hauled by team, forced them to go without many normal needs.
Charles turned his interest in cattle and farms the next year
to Sam and went to work for John W. Young, who was contractor
on the railroad that was being built across the country. He
stayed on as bookkeeper and paymaster until the contract was
finished. The headquarters was at what is now Holbrook, and
in his work it became necessary for him to make several trips
to Albuquerque to purchase supplies and bring goods for the
construction camp. Large sums of cash were necessarily carried
on these trips, and with numerous outlaw bands in this section
of the country at that time, great care had to be taken to
protect the money and the lives of those who carried it.
However, no serious trouble was encountered.
In February 1883, Charles moved his family to Nutrioso,
Arizona, after he and Sam Jarvis had been there and decided
there was a chance for settlers to make good. They sold their
holdings in Snowflake, bought land in Nutrioso, and purchased
a small stock of merchandise, and started a store there. They
also had some cattle and horses, which they thought would have
plenty of good range. They each started a home, Charles built
one large log room, and Sam two lumber rooms. They planted
crops, and the grain was looking fine, but Charles was about
out of ready money, and about that time he was offered a
position in the Co-op Store at Woodruff, Arizona; so he turned
his crop and other interests to Sam to look after, and he took
his family and moved.
While there his first son was born in the midst of a siege of
typhoid fever in the home. Their second little girl was sick,
and Charles, himself, had a serious case, and then the infant
took the disease when he was two weeks old. After about three
months, the family had at least partly recovered, though
Charles was still weak, and Annie suffered bad stomach spells,
he went back to work to try to catch up financially, and pay
the bills and do something in appreciation of the many
kindnesses that had been shown them in their trying
circumstances. Then he received word that Sam, who had
charge of the property in Nutrioso was selling out and leaving
for old Mexico, so he had to settle his affairs and return to
Nutrioso in the late winter.
On arriving, they found the whole community in the grip of a
terrible epidemic of scarlet fever. It seemed to be in the air,
and every home where there were children in the valley, no
matter how far they were from neighbors, was stricken, and
most of them lost one or more of their little ones. There was
no doctor within reach, and no one seemed to know what to do.
In a short while all three of the little girls had the disease,
and all were very serious cases--Annie was sick again for more
than two months, and it was summer before the family was well
again.
By that time, Charles was again out of money. He left his
family and what property was left, in the care of his wife's
brother Heber Jarvis, and set out again to find employment.
He found a job as a clerk in Madell Co.'s Store in
Albuquerque, New Mexico.
In December 1886, their baby girl, Stella, was badly burned
by tipping a boiler of hot water and clothes over her, and
father had to be sent for to Albuquerque, but it took almost
two weeks for him to get the work and come home. She was in
a most serious condition, and not expected to live. As before,
there was no medical help at hand, and only the neighbors to
offer what home remedies and assistance they were able to
give. Father hurried with all possible speed, and on the way
consulted the best doctors he could find, and brought home
the medicines they suggested, but it was months before those
terrible burns were healed, and they left painful scars, hard,
tight cords, that took years to soften enough not to be really
painful, and she will always have them.
The next spring another crop was planted, but before harvest
Charles had an offer of a position as clerk in the C.M. & M.I.,
the largest store in the County at that time, at St. Johns,
Arizona. At the time his wife's health was very poor, but they
decided it was best that he accept the position.
In September another son was born whom they named Arthur, and
in December 1887, the family moved to St. Johns.
While they lived at Woodruff, Charles Jarvis was chosen and set
apart as a President in the 84th Quorum of Seventy. In July
1887 the St. Johns Stake of Zion was organized, and Charles
was named first assistant to Superintendent William D. Rencher
in the Stake Sunday School; and when the 104th Quorum of
Seventy was organized in this Stake, he was made Senior President.
Having lived in several communities and become prominent because
of his interest in public affairs, he was almost immediately one
of the leading citizens of the county in political and civic
affairs, as well as church activities. He was elected County
Recorder in the fall of 1888, and for four years was Clerk of
the Board of Supervisors. He was also Deputy Treasurer,
assistant to W.H. Gibbons. Subsequently he worked in most of
the County Offices, and assisted the attorneys during court
session, helping to transcribe their cases, etc.
About this time Company K., National Guards was established,
and a real live company was organized in St. Johns, in which
he took great interest--learning the manual and receiving the
appointment of lieutenant, and later captain.
Charles was one of the main ones to organize the first brass
band in St. Johns, and was chosen its first leader. He was a
member of the garden club, organized to cooperate in obtaining
a large number of fruit and ornamental trees, and have city
lots planted to orchards, and beautify the town. Thousands of
trees were planted and the appearance of the town changed
through the work of this organization. He volunteered in the
Spanish-American War, but was rejected on account of his lameness.
He was the first music teacher in the St. Johns Stake Academy.
Was leader of the choir, both ward and stake, for years, and
spent much time helping the singers learn finer music, and
render it more correctly. He was one of the regular musicians
in the dances, playing the piccolo or flute, and he and his
wife and daughter were often called on to sing special numbers.
Charles purchased a city lot in the southwest part of St. Johns,
unfenced, and with only a one-room brick house. He had the lot
fenced and bought adjoining lots, until he owned three city
blocks together; had alfalfa and trees planted, leveled where
the house was, and planted orchard, vineyard and garden, added
other rooms, &c. He was always improving, and giving needed
employment to others. Then he invested in some real estate in
other parts of town; he started a ranch east of town, built a
house, dug a well, and began investing in cattle, that his boys
might have a start.
Another baby boy was born here, who lived only eighteen months
and died before they had a chance to have his picture taken.
This grieved Charles and at the first opportunity, he purchased
a photo outfit, saying, This thing need never happen to any
one else here as long as I live.
He did well at making
pictures, and many of the early settlers had pictures made by
him that are a source of satisfaction to their descendants.
Charles also did dental work, especially extracting. In those
pioneer days it was not possible to have the help of a dentist
when someone was suffering from toothache--there just wasn't
any. Apostle Francis M. Lyman was visiting the Arizona
settlements, and being a dentist, brought along his roll of
forceps for extracting. Charley saw it and talked with him
about his work. Elder Lyman gave him some valuable instructions
about the work, what kind of forceps to use for different
teeth, and showed him how to pull with them. Charley soon
bought the best set he could get, and they were very useful.
He kept them shining bright and in a chamois skin roll, and
took them wherever he went. Many a sufferer was indeed grateful.
Father had a gallery and office built near the drug store where
he was ready to serve the public. He was a notary public, and
U.S. Land Commissioner.
About 1896 he decided to become a full-fledged dentist. He went
to Salt Lake City and was employed by Dr. Stanley Clawson after
working there a year or more, went to Chicago, and entered the
Chicago Institute of Dental Surgery, staying until he received
his Diploma. He bought equipment after returning home, and did
filling and plate work, as well as extracting. It was said that
he was a No. 1 in all this work, but could not be beat at pulling
teeth.
No one of these businesses would have provided a good salary,
but by combining them, he did well financially, and was indeed
a useful man in a small community.
After his boys married, he tried to set them up in business.
The first mail contract run with Automobiles had just been let
in the County to W.B. Parks. Jarvis and Parks made a deal by
which Jarvis subbed the contract from Parks. Arthur was living
in Holbrook, and he was given charge of that end of the
business, while Charles looked after the St. Johns end. Well,
it failed, and they lost quite a sum of money. There were, of
course, several causes, but any way, he was a pioneer in the
Auto Transport Business.
Charles filled a mission at the call of his Church to his
native England, 1902–1904. This had been one of the great
desires of his life, and was a great satisfaction. He was
also Postmaster of St. Johns for several years.
The last great accomplishment of his life, was going out with
his team and wagon and camping with Albert while he
superintended putting up the poles and line wire for the
first telephone in the county, and installing the telephones.
He stayed right on the job of line work from St. Johns to
Springerville and Snowflake, and when it was done he kept
the first telephone office in his gallery-office for a number
of years.
After that, he was clerk in the legislature in Phoenix about
1912, but had quite a bad illness while there, and was never
very well afterwards, though he held the office of Deputy
County School Superintendent under Brigham Y. Peterson, his
son-in-law, most of his term of office, and continued his
Notary Public and Land Office work up until a few months of
his death.
The following is related by Charles Reuel Jarvis, his oldest son:
"Father was not well, and his leg was very painful, so he decided
to take an outing for a change and rest, in the mountains. We
fitted out the light spring covered wagon for camping--taking
bedding, food, firearms, axe, &c., hitched up Maud and Coley
and started. Our first night out we had one of the heaviest
rainstorms I have ever witnessed.
We traveled South through the timber to near Lee Valley and as
grass was good, wood and water plentiful and the country
beautiful, decided to stay neat Hall Creek several days. Father
had his gun aimed at a squirrel when he heard the clatter of
horses' hooves on the stones nearby. He lowered his gun and
listened. The animal was nearing at great speed. Father
watched, then hailed the rider, asking what his hurry was. He
said his little brother had fallen from a tree and broken his
arm, and he was going to Springerville (some 25 miles distant)
to find a Doctor to set the limb. Father said, I think I can
set that arm. Take me to him and let's see.
So Father was soon
there fixing splints and bandages, and very soon the limb was
properly adjusted, and the child resting easy. He said, I'll
just stay around here a few days and see how this gets along.
All went well, and the boy was soon all right. The arm never
gave him any more trouble.
On this same trip some days later, father had moved camp further
back on the mountain, and was just ready for supper at Crosby's
Ranch, when Willard Eager rode up and said his mother was
suffering terribly, and needed a doctor. Father questioned him
a minute or two, and said, I think I can help your mother.
Take me to her.
He was soon at Eager's and found that Sister
Eager's jaw was out of place and she couldn't close her mouth.
She was really in bad shape and suffering greatly. Father took
hold of her face, and in a few seconds, had the adjustment
made, and all was well. It just seemed to me,
said Reuel,
that on that trip, Father just happened to be where he was
needed most at exactly the right time.
Father had always
studied his medical journals and after completing his dental
course was always sorry he hadn't continued to be a medical
and surgical physician."
Charles was five feet four inches tall, weight 140 lbs., light
hair, even features, good complexion, and the most expressive
dark blue eyes, eyes that fairly danced with mischief or joy,
or expressed anger or disgust, sorrow or pain. He always kept
himself neat and cleanly, and his clothes were chosen in good
taste on all occasion.
His worst fault was his extreme sensitiveness and his quick
temper. He sometimes spoke harshly and said things that hurt
mother's feelings, and she would invariably talk back,
and
a quarrel would follow. His Old English
notion would often
assert itself, that a man was Lord of his Castle, home, estate
or business, and he would brook no interference in what he
termed his affairs, from anyone. These things caused most of
the unpleasantness in our home. I have always felt that it
could have been largely avoided if mother had been more
tactful. But we all have some peculiar or undesirable trait.
Father loved his family and friends, and he never came home
from a trip without bringing each child and mother some nice
present that he thought they would enjoy. He loved to help
the old, the crippled, or unfortunate, or give employment to
the needy, and always thought of ways to do someone a
kindness. He had a fine sense of humor, and enjoyed a good
joke and often played jokes on his children. His wonderful
intellectuality, his extreme industry in striving for useful
knowledge, his love of culture and the finer things in life
were all admirable qualities that endeared him to the best
people of his acquaintance.
The preceeding was taken from the Charles Godfrey Defriez Jarvis
entry in Amy Thiriot's genealogy blog:
Amy Thiriot's Charles Godfrey Defriez Jarvis blog
for which we are most grateful. Amy Thiriot, in turn, indicates
that her material is taken from Margaret Jarvis Overson's
George Jarvis and Joseph George DeFriez Genealogy,
Mesa, Arizona: Privately printed, 1957.